Suzy, 31, Singer, Washington D.C. About a year and a half ago I was hooking up with my ex-boyfriend at my apartment and he asked me for a blow job without even realizing it. We were making out on my bed and just getting into it and all of a sudden he was like, "Hey, can you suck my dick?" First of all, ask and you shall not receive. And definitely don't expect me to give you a blow job if you're not going to go down on me afterward. I was so pissed off, I ended up giving him an angry blow job, which actually turned out to be really hot for both of us—but it took me a while to work up to it because, just to fuck with him, I pretended like I wasn't going to give him one after he asked me. We just kept making out and I got him really hard and really turned on, but I refused to put my mouth anywhere near his crotch. I kept telling him that I had been planning on giving him one but he had ruined his chances by asking. I knew it was driving him crazy, and I was enjoying watching him squirm, so I kept messing with him like that for a good 20 minutes or so. I eventually stopped tormenting him and gave him a blow job, but mainly because I got myself so riled up and horny that I couldn't resist. But then the asshole didn't even go down on me, so I was extra irritated. So after that I didn’t suck his dick again for about three months as punishment. The thing is, I love giving head because I've been told by a lot of guys that I am really good at it, but I wanted to show him that it's not good form to ask a girl for a blow job. Also, pushing my head down is a huge turn off—don't be a “dick-tator.” I know where I have to go, thank you.
Anastacia, 36, Treatment Specialist, Seattle, Washington One night about eight years ago, I went out with a group of friends and my boyfriend at the time. We hit up a club and stayed out late dancing and then my boyfriend and I went back to the apartment we shared together and we started messing around. We got most of each other’s clothes off and out of nowhere he grabbed my hair and pushed my head into his crotch and told me to suck his dick. In my head I was like, um, yeah, I love you, too, jerk off! I immediately pulled away, got dressed, and told him to suck his own dick. (He probably would have.) Not surprisingly, that relationship didn't last. Those men that are intelligent enough to let me find my own way down there are the ones that will be rewarded for their patience. The minute a man grabs my head and tries to force it in that direction, I am done. Please never ask me to suck your dick. I am a grown woman; I know how to please a man, so try to enjoy the process. And don’t forget to return the favor.
Tanya, 34, Designer, New York, New York There’s nothing worse than when I’m trying to deep-throat and I get a guy’s coarse pubic hair stuck in my mouth. It happened when I went to Paris for the first time—I was wooed to bed by a romantic and gallant Frenchie, however, when the clothes came off, I was shocked to see how much hair he had in the nether-regions. It’s true, the French do like things au natural. But please, keep that Wookie-bush trimmed for us American girls! Instead of concentrating on sucking his beautiful long cock, I spent the whole time trying not to gag on his pubes, while simultaneously trying to get them out of my teeth in a subtle way. Talk about multitasking. It was like making out with a Mogwai, which as you might’ve guessed isn’t a huge turn-on.
Ellen, 24, Editor, Chicago, Illinois One night last year, what was supposed to be casual drinks at a bar with a guy friend turned into 2 a.m. tequila shots, making out in the back seat of a cab, and then us naked on the floor of my apartment. We're still friends but it was definitely one of the hottest hook-ups I've ever had because it was so spur-of-the-moment and because we had great chemistry and I think we impressed each other with our bedroom prowess. I knew I gave him a great blow job because he couldn't stop touching me, his hands were all over my body, and when he was just about to come, he grabbed me, pulled me up and we kept fucking for another half hour. It was really hot. Great head happens when I'm really turned on, and I can't get enough of his dick. I go down on him because I want to and because it makes me feel sexy to know that I'm making him feel that good.
Heather, 28, Writer, Vail, Colorado I want to give my boyfriend head all the time because I know how much he loves it. The best is when he's looking down at me and making noises and groaning with pleasure. It turns me on so much to hear him moan and say things like, "Yeah, that feels so good." He'll also tell me to "do that thing with your tongue—oh yeah!" It’s such a turn-on because I love having the power to drive him crazy with my mouth. I love it when he's specific and tells me what he likes because it makes me really want to blow him away with my oral skills...pun intended, of course.
Veverica, 36, Artist, Detroit, Michigan I love giving head. I love the way it smells (when it's clean, which is a must) and I love the way it feels in my mouth, on my tongue and lips. It totally turns me on to give my guy pleasure orally. It's so intimate and trusting to have my face right up in his most prized possession. If I’m not quite in the mood yet, giving him a blow job and listening to his breathing definitely starts the juices flowing. I like a little guidance—soft verbal suggestions and subtle changes in his groans and breathing to let me know he's enjoying it. And a hand placed nicely, not aggressively, on the back of my head for guidance is a huge turn-on.
t’s no secret women love to get themselves off, though you might be surprised to learn how often they do it and how creative they are with their methodology. Contrary to popular belief, most women do not close their eyes and envision Robert Pattinson sweeping them off their feet with romantic gestures and tender kisses. Dildos and porn are standard fare, but secret sessions in office restrooms and during morning commutes are also par for the course for women truly committed to the cause of self-pleasure. 
Kristin; 32; Writer; New York I don’t really have one preferred method for getting myself off. I would say I masturbate every other day or so, usually to porn on the Internet or to erotic fiction. I’ve also got a lot of fantasies logged away in my dirty little brain, so it’s pretty easy for me to call on one of those if the usual porn fare is boring me. I use vibrators, dildos, my fingers, furniture—whatever is handy. I love using my middle finger to massage my G-Spot because that is what gets me the most aroused. I’m also obsessed with Kegel exercises. I do them constantly because I’ve found that the stronger my Kegel muscles are, the more intense my orgasms are. The only problem is that doing Kegel exercises makes me extremely horny. I’ll unconsciously start doing them while I’m sitting at my desk at work, and I end up getting myself into such a frenzy that I have to go to the office bathroom and finish myself off. My ultimate goal is to be able to orgasm just from doing Kegel exercises alone, but so far I haven’t been successful (hence the numerous trips to the bathroom during the work week). I’m not going to stop trying, though! I can also get off pretty quickly by throwing a towel over the side of the bathtub and “riding” it. I can do it naked or clothed, and I basically just grind my clit against the towel. It sounds freaky, but it’s fast and it works every time.
Lisa; 31; Journalist; Boston I used to masturbate in my car during my morning work commute when I lived in Oklahoma. I don't know if it was my old Geo that vibrated a lot or that I was just bored, but for some reason the ride to work always made me really horny. The roads in Oklahoma are not exactly packed during “rush hour,” so it was easy for me to make sure no one could see what I was doing. I would use a water bottle to fervently rub my clit while I was driving. It worked every time, and it never took me long to get myself off. I did have to be careful to avoid driving near any trucks, which was kind of hard in the Midwest. One time, just as I started to come, a cop pulled up alongside my car and passed me, which kind of freaked me out. But I was already mid-orgasm, so there was nothing I could do. Luckily he didn’t seem to notice, and I just kept on driving!
Celeste; 32; Lawyer; San Francisco I mostly masturbate to amateur Internet porn or to my own made-up fantasies, and usually with the assistance of some website-ordered gadget. I've had a lot of interesting experiences with my vibrators. One time my grandfather accidentally turned one on when he was sitting on my bed because it was under my mattress. Needless to say, that was a bit embarrassing! Also, one time my friends gave me a fancy Pleasure Vibe dildo that bore my name. It was very high-tech, and the control panel looked like a stereo equalizer. I managed to break it through over-use in just a few short weeks.
Emme; 31; Musician; Chicago Several years ago I worked at an ad agency in downtown Chicago and had a particular bathroom I would sneak away to and get my rocks off during the workday. There weren't a lot of people who used it, so the restroom traffic was minimal. But one afternoon I was in my favorite stall furiously rubbing my clit, just about to come, and I heard the sound of the door opening and someone walking inside. Ugh. The intensity of being on the verge of reaching orgasm combined with the excitement and nerves of possibly getting caught had my heart racing. The whole time I was trying to make up my mind about whether or not to finish. I waited for a few minutes, quietly concluded my “personal business meeting" and went back to work. I was smiling to myself all day because it was exciting to have narrowly avoided being discovered getting myself off on the job. Sadly, my current place of employment is not at all conducive to beating off in the bathroom. The close quarters make it too likely for me to get busted and have everyone find out about it—although I think about doing it all the time.
Anastacia; 36; Treatment Specialist; Seattle My favorite position when I masturbate is doggie style, and I think part of the reason for that is because I can touch myself very easily in that position. When I am alone and I masturbate, it's always face down, ass up! Whenever I touch myself I am always thinking about taking it from behind. One of the craziest places I ever tickled the taco was in a dressing room at some store. I was trying on clothes and started thinking about the hot sex my man and I had the night before. I got totally wet and horny and just had to relieve myself as quickly and quietly as possible. I still wonder if there were cameras in that dressing room—if so, I really hope they enjoyed the show.
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